Currently Dating Myself
A Facebook group for single ladies.
My belief is that women sometimes tend to jump from relationship to relationship without taking time out to heal. We all know that when you end a relationship with someone, it doesn’t completely end there. There are all kinds of feelings left over, whether they are good or bad. We carry baggage from past relationships into new relationships and throughout our life.
What needs to change is how we treat ourselves and take care of ourselves after a break up or the end of a relationship. We need time to heal, and to process what has happened. If we allow ourselves this time work through the hurt and issues, we are doing ourselves a huge favor and our next relationship a huge favor. When we take the time to reflect back on the relationship, and on all of the issues that affected us in it, we’re much better prepared for the next!
I’ve created a small private Facebook for women just for this reason! I am passionate about helping women live fuller, happier lives by helping them to learn to love themselves. We don’t realize how much difference it makes to love yourself until you ACTUALLY DO. ESPECIALLY when it comes to being in a relationship with someone else.
When you are having trouble loving yourself and seeing that you deserve healthy love from a partner, it can cause you to settle for someone who may not treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. We as humans tend to be attracted to people who we feel are on the same level, or wavelength, or who have the same energy as we do. Even if you don’t realize that you are feeling bad about yourself — your energy you give off does. There’s a quote that says “You attract what you are, not what you want.”
If you have just gotten out of a relationship and feel like you want to do things differently for your next relationship, let’s talk. Join my Facebook group by clicking here! I can’t wait to get to know you!